A FREE Bible Study guide designed to help women confidently lead meaningful, Scripture-centered Bible studies. This guide provides a simple framework for preparing, teaching, and facilitating discussion while encouraging women to grow in their confidence as Bible study leaders.
✓ You prepared the lesson.
✓ You prayed.
✓ You came ready with good questions.
Then you ask one...
And the room goes quiet.
So you reword it.
You wait.
Eventually, you answer it yourself just to keep things moving.
Before long, you're doing most of the talking—and wondering
why getting women to participate feels so hard.
The answer isn't always a better question.
Sometimes the conversation needs to start long before you
ask the deep one.
Meaningful conversation doesn't begin with one brilliant discussion question.
It begins by creating a room where women feel comfortable speaking—and knowing how to guide the conversation once they do.
Get Them Talking walks you through five practical parts of that process:
You don't need to control the conversation.
You just need to know how to guide it.
Get Them Talking wasn't created from theory. It grew out of leading my own women's Bible study week after week.
I started paying attention to what happened in the room—what helped women open up, what made conversation stall, and what changed when I stopped feeling like I had to fill every quiet moment myself.
I learned that meaningful discussion often starts before the first Bible study question is ever asked. Starting with easy conversation helps women get comfortable speaking. Better questions help them think. Giving them time to answer makes room for their voices. And knowing how to guide what happens next keeps the conversation moving without taking it over.
Most importantly, I learned that conversation isn't the destination. It should always lead us back to Scripture, where we can discover what God's Word says and how it applies to our lives.
Those real-life lessons became the heart of Get Them Talking.
Real women. Real conversations. Practical tools for leaders who want to create a room where women participate—not just listen.
1. Is this only for experienced Bible study leaders?
Not at all. Get Them Talking was created to give you a simple, practical way to guide conversation—whether you've been leading for years or you're still figuring it out. You don't have to have all the answers. The goal is to help you lead the room, guide the conversation, and keep Jesus at the center.
2. Will this work with the Bible study or curriculum I'm already using?
Yes. Get Them Talking isn't a Bible study curriculum. It's a practical discussion guide you can use alongside the study you're already leading. The principles—starting with easy conversation, asking better questions, handling silence, guiding responses, and keeping Scripture central—can be used with virtually any Bible study.
3. What exactly will I receive?
You'll receive the 11-page digital Get Them Talking guide, a one-page Leader Quick Reference, and two bonus printable resources: Ready-to-Use Conversation Prompts and Easy Conversation Starters. Everything is delivered digitally, so you can start using it right away.
