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Watch What You Say About Her women’s Bible study about speaking life

Watch What You Say About Her | Speaking Life Bible Study

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What if the words you would never say to another woman are the very words you’ve been speaking over yourself?

Watch What You Say About Her is an interactive women’s Bible study about speaking life and learning to see yourself through God’s eyes.

Through Scripture, meaningful discussion, and a powerful mirror object lesson, women will explore the difference between acknowledging their struggles and allowing those struggles to define them. This study encourages honest conversation about the words we speak over ourselves and challenges women to replace words of death with the truth of what God says.

Built around Proverbs 18:21 and Philemon 1:6, this study brings your group back to one simple truth:

God gets the final word about who you are.

Designed to help you lead without carrying the whole conversation, this ready-to-lead study includes conversation starters, thoughtful discussion questions, a memorable object lesson, leader lesson pages, a fill-in-the-blank worksheet, weekly challenge, prayer space, and closing blessing.

Watch what you say about her. Speak life.

    YOU DON'T HAVE TO CARRY THE WHOLE CONVERSATION.

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    ✓ You prepared the lesson.

    ✓ You prayed.

    ✓ You came ready with good questions.

     

    Then you ask one...

    And the room goes quiet.

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    So you reword it.

    You wait.

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    Eventually, you answer it yourself just to keep things moving.

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    Before long, you're doing most of the talking—and wondering

    why getting women to participate feels so hard.

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    The answer isn't always a better question.

    Sometimes the conversation needs to start long before you

    ask the deep one.

    GETTING THEM TALKING ISN'T ABOUT FINDING THE PERFECT QUESTION.

    Meaningful conversation doesn't begin with one brilliant discussion question.

    It begins by creating a room where women feel comfortable speaking—and knowing how to guide the conversation once they do.

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    Get Them Talking walks you through five practical parts of that process:

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    START EASY

    Open the room before you open the discussion.

    Learn why a simple icebreaker or conversation starter can lower the pressure, build connection, and make it easier for women to participate when the conversation gets deeper.

    ASK BETTER QUESTIONS

    Ask questions that invite women to think—not guess what you're thinking.

    Learn how to turn flat or closed questions into open-ended questions that connect Scripture with real life and encourage women to share what they see.

    HANDLE THE SILENCE

    Stop treating quiet like an emergency.

    Learn what to do after you ask the question—including your simple rhythm:

    Ask → Wait → Listen → Follow Up

    GUIDE WHAT HAPPENS NEXT

    Someone answered. Now what?

    Learn how to acknowledge what was shared, ask a follow-up, invite another perspective, and know when it's time to move on—without taking over the conversation.

    KEEP SCRIPTURE AT THE CENTER

    Conversation is valuable—but it isn't the destination.

    Learn how to keep bringing the room back to God's Word and move naturally from reading Scripture to talking about it, discovering what it means, and applying it to real life.

    You don't need to control the conversation.
    You just need to know how to guide it.

    GET THEM TALKING — $17

    THE PRACTICAL GUIDE
    The complete Get Them Talking method—from opening the room to keeping Scripture at the center.


    LEADER QUICK REFERENCE
    A one-page, at-a-glance tool to keep beside you while you lead.


    2 BONUS PRINTABLES
    Ready-to-Use Conversation Prompts + Easy Conversation Starters you can use with your group right away.

    EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO START LEADING THE CONVERSATION DIFFERENTLY.
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    GET THEM TALKING — $17
    BUILT IN A REAL ROOM.
    SHAPED BY REAL CONVERSATIONS.

    Get Them Talking wasn't created from theory. It grew out of leading my own women's Bible study week after week.

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    I started paying attention to what happened in the room—what helped women open up, what made conversation stall, and what changed when I stopped feeling like I had to fill every quiet moment myself.

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    I learned that meaningful discussion often starts before the first Bible study question is ever asked. Starting with easy conversation helps women get comfortable speaking. Better questions help them think. Giving them time to answer makes room for their voices. And knowing how to guide what happens next keeps the conversation moving without taking it over.

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    Most importantly, I learned that conversation isn't the destination. It should always lead us back to Scripture, where we can discover what God's Word says and how it applies to our lives.

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    Those real-life lessons became the heart of Get Them Talking.

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    Real women. Real conversations. Practical tools for leaders who want to create a room where women participate—not just listen.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    1. Is this only for experienced Bible study leaders?
    Not at all. Get Them Talking was created to give you a simple, practical way to guide conversation—whether you've been leading for years or you're still figuring it out. You don't have to have all the answers. The goal is to help you lead the room, guide the conversation, and keep Jesus at the center.

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    2. Will this work with the Bible study or curriculum I'm already using?
    Yes. Get Them Talking isn't a Bible study curriculum. It's a practical discussion guide you can use alongside the study you're already leading. The principles—starting with easy conversation, asking better questions, handling silence, guiding responses, and keeping Scripture central—can be used with virtually any Bible study. 

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    3. What exactly will I receive?
    You'll receive the 11-page digital Get Them Talking guide, a one-page Leader Quick Reference, and two bonus printable resources: Ready-to-Use Conversation Prompts and Easy Conversation Starters. Everything is delivered digitally, so you can start using it right away.

    READY TO GET YOUR ROOM TALKING?

    GET THEM TALKING — $17
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